Dating Waitlists
— shared in one tap.
A dating waitlist is a personal profile a single person shares so friends, followers, and admirers are notified the moment they're free to date. Not a dating app — your own shareable status. Read the dating waitlist guide.
To keep everyone safe, joining waitlists and scheduling dates are locked until identity and age are verified. This applies to every account — including premium.
Hey, this is my username:
Three steps to a shareable dating identity.
Claim
Pick your @username. We auto-generate a unique short code to pair with it.
Set
Add photos, interests, location, and when you're actually free to meet.
Share
Give your @username to the people you choose. They request access — with or without your private code.
1 · Copy your handle or profile link
Tap to copy @alex, your private code, or your full profile link.
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Most of what we do you can guess from the name. These three you cannot.
Drinks at The Standard Spa, Miami Beach
Yes — always the first time
Date forms
Skip the small talk. Set the questions that actually matter to you — and everyone who wants a spot on your waitlist answers them before you ever open a chat. You read, you decide.
Custom date waitlists
A separate list for one specific plan — a spare festival pass, a Sunday brunch, a golden-hour walk. People join for the occasion, not just for the profile, and the location stays hidden until you accept someone.
Extra pass for Saturday night
Table for two at 11:30 AM
Golden hour, cameras welcome
Your spots unlock only once you accept someone.
Favourite places
The cafés, parks and restaurants you actually like — Miami or anywhere else. It answers the worst question of any first date before anyone has to ask it. Keep them public, or switch them off until you match.
More features — work in progress
A preview of what's coming next to datingwaitlists.
Activate Payments
People can support the cost of a date — including getting ready, makeup, outfit prep, transport, and other date-related expenses — or use My Time, My Money, a 50:50 stake that keeps both sides accountable. If one person does not show up, part of their stake is transferred to the person who attended, based on the confirmation flow.
Support makeup, outfit prep, transport, and the time it takes to get ready.
Both people lock in the same amount before the date, so commitment is shared.
If one person does not show up, part of their stake goes to the person who kept the commitment and attended.
Experiences for dates
Instead of another "let's grab a coffee", the date itself becomes a bookable experience — chosen together, paid together, and confirmed inside the same safety flow you already use.
Rooftop dinners, tastings, gallery nights, padel, sunset boats — matched to both profiles.
Pick the experience, time, and place; both sides confirm before anything is charged.
Reserved tables and member-only extras at trusted spots, tied to the same scan confirmation.
Simple, honest pricing.
Start free. Upgrade when you want unlimited access and a Premium badge.
Free
ForeverEverything you need to try it out.
- Join up to 5 waitlists
- See up to 5 people per waitlist
- Up to 5 DateSafe verifications / month
- Your own shareable profile
- Basic profile visibility
Premium
MonthlyFor people who take dating seriously.
- Advanced search filters & sorting (age, gender, city, languages, interests)
- Unlimited waitlists
- Create custom waitlists for specific dates & activities
- See everyone on every waitlist
- Unlimited DateSafe verifications
- Premium badge on your profile
- Reputation score — attended & cancelled dates on every profile
- Better visibility in waitlists & search
- Priority access to new features
Cancel anytime. No hidden fees.
Built for people who hate dating apps, but still want to date.
No swiping. No endless chats. Just a clean profile and a real schedule.